Accept the present situation completely – Do not resist accepting anything. I don’t have to like the situation, but, resistance is the majority of the problem. The biggest fear is ‘looking bad’. This must be accepted and not resisted. Don’t feel sorry for myself – Humility dictates that I should not feel that bad things should not happen to me, they happen to everyone. Don’t insist on being right – Trying to force my will on other people and the world is a major cause of stress an

Fear , for me, is always related to ego . To put it simply, ego represents how I want the world to perceive me. On the other hand, humility is the ability to see myself as I truly am. So, my fear arises when I anticipate that something might challenge the way I want the world to see me. Everything else is merely a concern . For instance: I can be concerned that my work presentation won’t go well. However, I am in fear when I believe that people will think less of me due to it.